PRIVATE COACHING
Helping Men to Navigate Marital Crisis and Divorce
Strategic and emotional support to help you find a path through the chaos—and back to peace.
Hi, I’m James
I’m a Certified Divorce Coach®, and I help people feel steadier, clearer, and more in control—whether they’re preparing for divorce, going through it, or still unsure what comes next.
This work is deeply personal to me. My parents divorced when I was a teenager. While they avoided court, the emotional fallout left a lasting mark on our family. That experience taught me something I’ve never forgotten: how we move through divorce doesn’t just shape the next year—it can shape the next generation.
Now, I help clients navigate this chapter with less chaos, fewer regrets, and a lot more clarity. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or just tired of carrying it all alone—you're in the right place. You don’t have to have it all figured out. We’ll take this one step at a time.
Why Divorce Coaching?
Divorce isn’t just a legal process—it’s a deeply emotional, often chaotic life transition. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unclear, or like you’re losing control of what happens next, you’re not alone.
Many smart, capable people find themselves stuck in survival mode—second-guessing decisions, absorbing emotional conflict, and watching legal bills rise without a clear sense of progress. Divorce coaching exists to change that. It’s not therapy and it’s not legal advice—it’s strategic, emotional, and practical support to help you lead your divorce with clarity and intention.
As your coach, I help you regain control of the process, communicate with confidence, protect what matters most, and stay grounded—especially when everything else feels unstable. Together, we’ll create a personalized roadmap so you stop reacting to the chaos and start making smart, steady decisions that reflect your values. It’s a calmer, more thoughtful way forward.
What If I’m Not Ready for Divorce?
Not everyone who seeks divorce coaching is certain they want a divorce. Many of my clients come to me in a state of crisis or confusion—knowing they can’t keep going the way things are, but not yet ready to end the relationship.
If you're feeling stuck between staying and leaving, overwhelmed by what either path might mean, or unsure how to even begin sorting through the emotions, you're in the right place. This is where divorce coaching can be especially powerful. I provide a structured, nonjudgmental space to slow down, reflect, and get clear on what you truly want and need.
Whether you ultimately decide to pursue separation, repair the relationship, or simply create healthier boundaries, our work together is about helping you find clarity in the chaos—so you're not making life-altering decisions from a place of panic or pressure. You don’t have to figure it all out alone, and you don’t have to be “sure” to start.
Let’s Connect
Take the first step foward a with a free, no-obligation discovery call to explore how coaching can help in your specific situation.
“The very season that feels like it’s breaking you is the one that’s shaping you.” - Tony Robbins